How to keep your girlfriend happy

Now I know that I’m not her, and honestly, I believe that it is better to ask your partner what they want in your relationship, instead of looking for one million articles on the internet about what they might like. One thing that I can tell you for free is that she wants your love, I mean, she’s there for that, but she also wants other things, so keep reading this to unlock how to become a better boyfriend who has a happy girlfirend.

Pay attention

First, your girlfriend would want you to ask her about what she likes and what she doesn’t like. She would want you to show attentiveness and care in her interests and disinterests. Please pay attention. I don’t care how long you have been together, it doesn’t feel that way to that woman, she always wants to feel cared for and cared about, please care.

Listen to her

She wants and needs you to listen. Nobody wants a man who doesn’t remember the details, she wants you to remember that story she told you that time, she simply doesn’t want to have to start all over again, when it’s time to give an update. When she speaks, sincerely listen to her, and take in the details, trust me, every time you say something that shows that you remember the things that she has told you, that woman falls in love, all over again.

Be loyal

Duhh! That woman wants you to be loyal, she wants to be able to tell everyone that she knows that you’re never cheating on her. Even when she doesn’t hear from you, she wants to be sure that you’re not anywhere doing anything that would hurt her, if anything, it should be your safety that is her concern, not worries about if you’re somewhere sleeping with someone else. Give that woman peace and your loyalty, it’s easy. This loyalty that brings trust is achievable by being transparent at all times; don’t disappear for no reasons, and always explain whatever isn’t clear, after all you’re invested in that -ship, aren’t you?

Be Vulnerable

Gone are the days when it was okay to suffer in silence, as a sign of strength and heroism. Nobody needs that from their partner, please whatever is wrong with you generally in life, or in your relationship, communicate, let your partner know what’s going on with you. Nobody should have to sit and wonder what’s wrong with their partner. That space that you’re giving her in your relationship to sort yourself out, without saying why, is actually not helpful to her or your relationship. Open your mouth and talk, let your needs be known, ask for sincere feedback too.

Make out time for her

Your woman wants to spend good time together with you, in person or on the phone, how much time varies from individuals to be honest, because some women like a lot of space, and some could spend a lot of time with you and not get enough, just ask the woman with, how much time that she’d love to spend together, and make it fun. Give her that space if she wants, and give her that time if she wants, by all means, consider what works for you and what you need too, then both see how you can make things work for the both of you. If you’re too busy to have time for that woman, please don’t be in a relationship.

Compliment her

I don’t care how long you’ve known her for, please administer sweet, well thought-out, and sincere compliments in good doses. It doesn’t matter whether you’re already used to her beauty or good nature, please always mention it. It makes your partner feel desirable, appreciated and beautiful. I’ve not met one woman who doesn’t appreciate compliments from their partner. The way women smile when their partners compliment them is beautiful. Text her out of nowhere to let her know that she’s amazing and hot.

Give her gifts

Women loves gifts, from the little earrings, random food deliveries, bouquets of flowers, cakes and cupcakes, wigs, gadgets to the big vacations, and really huge gifts, she wants them all. A woman that loves you will appreciate every gift from you, because they show that you’re thinking of them, so keep the gifts thoughtful, and majorly buy them what they like, and not just what you like. Women like money too, if you have it, splurge on her please, and if you don’t and she’s with you, I’m sure that she loves you and doesn’t mind, so don’t put pressure on yourself or feel inadequate.

Please her

Sex is last on the list, not because it’s the least, but because I know that it’s not everybody that is in a sexual relationship, and if you’re in one, ask your partner how they want to be pleased and don’t forget to try out new things, if they are willing. The fact that you’re their boyfriend doesn’t automatically make you the owner of their bodies, please seek their consent. Have sex with them respectfully or disrespectfully, however they want it. Everybody loves a good time.

Y’all go make these women happy already. Amen❤️